Does Your Baby Have A Twitter?

My wife is not very surprised when I do absolutely crazy things in my life. I have always lived on the edge and that is one of the reasons she loves me. Since the birth of our first child, Dominic Peter Scancella 8 lbs. 11 ounces born on November 6th 2012, otherwise known as "Election Day" things have definitely changed. Let me first say, they have changed for the better, there are definitely challenging times, but I would not trade my son for the world! I love him with all my heart.

I think my wife realized just how crazy I was when I told her about a week before the birth that I thought it would be cool to live tweet the birth of our first child. Her response was laughing and shaking her head at me. When the time came the birth was live tweeted and I do have to say, went awesome! Here are a few gems from the birth:

You now see what my wife has to put up with on a daily basis. She is a saint and I take credit for making her one through my personality!

The other thing that my wife just shook her had at is when I told her that I made a twitter for our one month old son. All judging aside. This has been our way to share the joy our child brings to us everyday. I know if I could speak baby talk my son would be saying the same things that I am tweeting! We can use media for good to build up one another, to bring joy, or we can tear down one another with media. I hope on this day we all use media for good! So to close out this blog here are a few gems from my son on twitter. Follow him at @babydominicpete

Wishing, and hoping, and thinking, and praying!

 I heard this Dusty Springfield song this morning called,"Wishing & Hoping", which starts off with the lyrics, "Wishing and hoping and thinking and praying." I was shocked at how the first line of that song struck me to the core. Why you may ask.....well let me tell you.

Wishing~ As kids we wish upon shooting stars, and we make many birthday wishes, but what happens when we make it to adulthood? I know for a good part of my adulthood I stopped wishing and did more doing. As a a kid you believe that miracles can happen to you and somehow as we grow up we lose a lot of belief that miracles can happen. Take a moment to be a kid again. I don't mean close your eyes and wish for a pony, but I do mean believe in the fact that we can have dreams and they do come true! Case and point I married the love of my life and we are about to have our first child!

Hoping~ My wife will tell you, I am not a very hopeful person all the time. She says the glass is half full and I say half empty. She says the sun will come up tomorrow(or maybe that was Annie) and I say no it will rain on our parade forever. But, one line of Scripture changed my life. Romans 5:5, "...Hope does not disappoint, because the love of God has been poured out into our hearts through the holy Spirit that has been given to us." It does not disappoint! God does not disappoint! It may not turn out the way we thought, but we all must have is hope!

Thinking~ I think way too much! I know a lot of us do, but I really do. When my wife felt her first braxton-hix contraction, I freaked out! I was thinking at 100 mph. I was packing the bag, pulling up the car....heck I was ready to steal some older persons wheelchair plop my wife into it and go to the hospital, and that is why I shouldn't think. Well maybe that is overdoing it but that is why I should think about things that matter and not waste all my time thinking about things that I can't change!

Praying~ I talk a lot about prayer and in my job I am constantly telling people to pray, but how often do I stop and actually pray? The truth- not as often as I should! I should take some of my own advice and realize that you should never talk more about Jesus than you do to Jesus!

All that said I really wish, hope, think, and pray that our baby comes into the world very soon! Please join me in doing the same.

John Paul II

In 1995 I was 10 years old, and I remember to this day watching the Holy Father on TV say Mass at Giant Stadium in New Jersey. I thought it was cool on many levels. Not only was the Pope in the visiting the best state, New Jersey, but he was celebrating Mass in a PACKED FOOTBALL STADIUM! What an amazing man Blessed John Paul II was! I knew someone that attend that Mass at Giant stadium who sat at the very top in the nosebleed section. That person told me that although they sat at the furtherest point from the Holy Father they said they felt like they knew him, they felt like he was their best friend. He just had that type of personality.

October 22nd was the Feast day of Blessed John Paul II. Not only was he an inspiration to me in youth ministry, he is an inspiration to me and many others as a man of God. So let us all ask for the intercession of Blessed John Paul II!

Faithfullness

Four years go I spent a semester in Austria for school. It was the most amazing semester of my life. I met new people, my future wife, and was able to travel to tons of places. A truly amazing semester.

When I  share with people that I traveled for an entire semester, their first question I always get is where was your favorite place that you traveled to? It is a tough questions, I went so many places, and loved all of them. I loved going to Assisi and seeing Francis home,  beautiful Split, Croatia, or even going to the Guinness factory in Ireland, but without a doubt if I could go to one place and just spend all day there would be St. Peters Basilica.

Now I know that seems like a very Catholic thing to say, you get to see the tombs of the Pope's, The Sistine Chapel, or St. Peters square, but the one place I could sit at for hours is at the back of St.Peters Basilica is a statue of a woman, holding a man in her arms. The, woman in that statue is Mary, and the man is Jesus, and the name of the statue is the "Pieta." The Pieta is a gorgeous statue, and the word Pieta is translated in English means "faithfulness."

I have been a youth minister for a few years now, and I always thought being a youth minister faithfulness would be easy. This was not the case for many of us. Sometimes God places you somewhere in life that is not easy to be. Like right now for me, it is not easy for me to wait for the birth of our first child. All the questions that go through my head each second of everyday. Will I be a good dad? Will my child like me? Will my child think Im as funny as I know I am? Hopefully my child will answer yes to them all!

Still, through all this, God reminds me to be faithful. To be like our Mother Mary, who was faithful from the very beginning to very end. I remember standing in front of the pieta statue years ago and asking for the grace to have faith like Our Blessed Virgin Mary showed throughout her life. I realize now, that I will always pray for the "faithfulness" to live my life for Christ and His Church! I pray for you, and for us all that we can be faithful to whatever God may call us to in life!

Easter Baby!

Recently my wife and I found out that we are having a baby. Besides, the day I got married it has been one of the greatest days of my life . The whole process of having a baby is so surreal. You are no longer responsible for just your decisions, but now an entire other life.

Now we celebrate as a Church the Resurrection of Christ, and I cannot help but unite this to the entire experience of pregnancy. Just as Christ suffered, I see at times my wife suffering. Just as a Church we waited on Holy Saturday for Christ's glorious Resurrection, my wife and I wait for the birth of our first child. And just as we joined as a Church on Saturday night in darkness but finished in the glorious light of Christ, my wife and I cannot wait for the light of the birth of our first Child.

In todays society our Catholic faith is under attack. The rights to our Catholic faith are becoming harder live out in todays society. I see that first hand in the OBGYN field, where doctors are forced to compromise their morals everyday. So, what hope do we have? Why should we keep going? Why should I have my child enter into this messed up world? St. Augustine answers these questions by saying, "We are an Easter people and Hallelujah is our song." Hallelujah is a noun meaning "God be praised", or used to express praise and joy! We must be an Easter people who express our joy and praise in all situations and all times.

October 31st is my wife due date, and we wait in joyful expectation of the birth of our child, a child which I pray knows the love of Christ, and that Hallelujah is all of our songs!

Happy Easter & Hallelujah!

Birthday & An Amazing Wife

First I want to apologize for not blogging in such a longtime. I recently celebrated by 26th birthday on this earth and my first birthday as a married person. To be honest I was not expecting to much this year in regards to my birthday, and yet my wife pulled off an amazing party. She planned a surprise birthday party with me and my friends here in Ennis, TX. It was great and I know for sure it was the first ever surprise party that I have been really surprised when I walked in the door. It was great! We ate, laughed, and shared stories together.

The cool thing is that when I sat down and thought of the party, I wasn't surprised that my wife did such an amazing job, because she is so amazing. I just need to brag about her for a few minutes. She is the best! Beside the normal everyday stuff that she takes care of like laundry, cleaning, food, etc...she has a heart of kindness and generousness that I admire so much.

Nikki and I met in Gaming Austria on a semester abroad trip that we both took our sophomore year of college. Although it stupidly took me almost two years from the time we became friends to actually mustard up the courage to ask her out she remained a great friend.

I  could tell you stories upon stories about how kind, generous, and loving my wife is but most of you already know this. I sometimes wonder what it will be like to be married for 10, 15, 25, or 50 years.....and every time I think that I smile because it reminds me that I can't wait to wake up each day and go to bed each night being blessed enough to see my wife's face! Lord thank you for Nikki and the Blessing that she is to me and so many others!

I love Lucy & Marriage

My parents watched the old shows while us kids were growing up like "I Love Lucy" & "The Walton's". Shows that are classics and have great values and good family messages. This is unlike most of the shows that I see on TV today. The shows are now filled with divorce, scandal, & sex. You may be wondering where I am going with all of this. Well, some of you may know that I got married just 1 month and 7 days ago. And to be honest I was expecting a tough transition. Having someone around all the time, sharing a bed, & bathroom! I was expecting the lies the world feeds us to start entering into my marriage. I couldn't have been more wrong. Marriage is awesome, and it is awesome because my wife and I prepared for it, and took the tougher road to get to it. It would have been easy to test it out and live together, it would have been easy to be mediocre in the time leading up before marriage. But easy does not translate to holiness.

I think we can learn a lot from the old time shows. We can see marriages that work and families that stay together because they were centered on love. I know that you may be thinking that I am a fool! Or once I get a few years of marriage under my belt I will be changing my mind......wrong! Yes there will be struggles, yes there will good days and bad days, but the love of Christ is the center of our lives and that will never change. I pray that one day I have a family like the Walton's that is centered on God & family. Actually I pray that we all have that in our lives. And hopefully one day we will have shows worth watching again on television.


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